So often couples withdraw into themselves when a problem occurs in their marriage. I see partners withdraw or strike out in anger. Both of these responses create distance. After enough distance is created, sometimes after many years of marriage, couples think they've fallen out of love. What they've really fallen out of is connection. In order to connect couples must listen to each other without judgment, without criticism, or agreement. Try listening to your partner with the curiosity you had when you first met. You CAN rekindle the spark!
in reference to:"In a healthy marriage both spouses feel free to express their emotions"
- Anger – How To Express Healthy Anger (view on Google Sidewiki)
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